http://www.divorce-blog.co.uk/2007/07/04/getting-through-divorce-dealing-with-the-feelings/ Divorce and stuff that happens during it. Wed, 07 Jan 2009 13:00:22 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 http://www.divorce-blog.co.uk/2007/07/04/getting-through-divorce-dealing-with-the-feelings/#comment-381 Divorce Woman Wed, 20 Feb 2008 14:06:22 +0000 http://www.divorce-blog.co.uk/2007/07/04/getting-through-divorce-dealing-with-the-feelings/#comment-381 A Woman's Guide To Surviving A Divorce will show you the way A Woman’s Guide To Surviving A Divorce will show you the way

]]> http://www.divorce-blog.co.uk/2007/07/04/getting-through-divorce-dealing-with-the-feelings/#comment-273 Divorce Blog Sat, 22 Sep 2007 12:45:37 +0000 http://www.divorce-blog.co.uk/2007/07/04/getting-through-divorce-dealing-with-the-feelings/#comment-273 Thanks for that Ebohr, that's some great advice there. Thanks for that Ebohr, that’s some great advice there.

]]> http://www.divorce-blog.co.uk/2007/07/04/getting-through-divorce-dealing-with-the-feelings/#comment-272 Ebohr Munoz Sat, 22 Sep 2007 10:32:05 +0000 http://www.divorce-blog.co.uk/2007/07/04/getting-through-divorce-dealing-with-the-feelings/#comment-272 Just a little note on the benefit of dealing with the feelings well. The pay off is that you are likely to get along better with your former partner for discussing ongoing parenting issues. I say this from my experience as a divorce mediator over the last 4 years. The normal hurt, disappointment and anger from divorce can really make some parents struggle to co-parent. Islina Ricci provides a couple of excellent chapters in her book "Mom's House, Dad's House" on the process of lowering the emotional charge with your ex. She calls this the "retreat from intimacy" and gives a number of practical strategies. I have written abou this topic in a recent article: http://www.commonground.net.au/Article_Relating_Tips_for_Separated_Parents.html Just a little note on the benefit of dealing with the feelings well. The pay off is that you are likely to get along better with your former partner for discussing ongoing parenting issues. I say this from my experience as a divorce mediator over the last 4 years. The normal hurt, disappointment and anger from divorce can really make some parents struggle to co-parent.
Islina Ricci provides a couple of excellent chapters in her book “Mom’s House, Dad’s House” on the process of lowering the emotional charge with your ex. She calls this the “retreat from intimacy” and gives a number of practical strategies. I have written abou this topic in a recent article:
http://www.commonground.net.au/Article_Relating_Tips_for_Separated_Parents.html

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